Fed up with Pediatrician

[Living Food]

adobegirl: Why do you bother going to a doctor? He's obviously not providing any useful information or service (no surprise there, though). Why not save the money?

[MysticTree]

I just signed up with a new doctor and went for a newbie appointment. He did and said almost nothing! I gave him my chart of bp readings I've been taking. He entered the latest reading of 119/69 on the computer and commented not that it was down from 190/120 just about 6 weeks ago. He didn't demand tests when seeing that I follow a raw vegan diet. He didn't comment on it at all. He didn't listen to my heart or lungs or take readings of any sort. No pee tests. Nothing. I was in and out in about 4 minutes. I have never had such a brief consultation!

[Living Food]

I wonder why so many people still insist on going to see doctors who know so much less then them - someone who knows less then you and is convinced that he is absolutely right and you are wrong, and who expects all of his/her (frequently harmful) instructions to be followed to the letter - sounds like a recipe to disaster! I haven't seen a doctor in a long, long time, and I never will again, unless I have the misfortune to be seriously injured in some accident.

The only real use of modern doctors and medicine is when people are injured. They're absolutely hopeless when it comes to actual health.

[Crystal2870]

Maybe its because they have all these charts which they expect every baby to conform too !, my babies charts are based on a bottle fed child which is crazy as obviously if being bottle fed they will put on more weight than a breastfed baby, dont forget hes alot more active now so burning more calories..
I'd agree the doctors dont know hardly anything about nutrition, I was told when I had my twins that I would Starve my twins if I breastfed them , how crazy is that !..
Good luck with breastfeeding while pregnant, try and get plenty of rest (easier said than done i know!), I was breastfeeding my son whilst pregnant with my daughter, it can be quite demanding !....and sore later on, my son self weaned almost overnight, I think it was when maybe the colostrum came in and the taste changed or something, he was only 14 months then.. x
I'd say trust your instincts as a mother if hes eating well and breastfeeding plenty Im sure he is fine ! xx

[Arky]

I'm well aware of the benefits of raw foods.


...but I wouldn't be so fast to dismiss your paediatrician. Whether you like it or not, there are nutrients a growing child needs which are not necessarily rich in a vegan diet, and this may be reflected in breast milk, wonderful though breast milk can be.


Zinc deficiency, for example, can be associated with growth issues. Zinc is available in the vegan diet (pumpkin seeds, for example), but one needs to make a deliberate effort to obtain decent intake.


MCFAs are important for child growth, too.


Vitamin D is also vital for healthy human growth. Shazzie discusses vitamin D here:


http://shazzie.com/life/articles/raw...children.shtml


If your diet is deficient in certain nutrients, then so, too, will your breast milk be deficient in certain nutrients, and thus your child may experience deficiencies of certain nutrients.


I've suffered the inadequacies of conventional medicine for many years, and indeed I'm still suffering from heavy metal issues contributed to primarily by a lifetime of ethyl-mercury-preserved vaccinations, so believe me, I do understand the shortcomings of conventional practitioners. However, what you have described does not seem like sufficient justification to write-off your paediatrician. Respectfully, it does rather sound like you may be interpreting your paediatrician's seemingly 'mainstream' concern about your child's raw vegan diet as representing a challenge towards your raw vegan philosophical idealism. If your child's growth is halting, then this clearly points towards a possibility of there being one or more nutritional deficiencies involved.


I'm not criticising raw-veganism; I'm simply pointing out that raw veganism is not a flawless dietary approach (no dietary approach, of any kind, is flawless, vegan or omnivorous, cooked or raw). Therefore, if your child's growth is halting, then it is entirely legitimate to question whether there may be some nutritional deficiency involved in the situation - simply indignantly dismissing your paediatrician for posing such a question does not serve your child's best interests, no matter how much you love your child, and no matter how much you love your raw-vegan dietary philosophy.


Your child's best interests will be better served by you having a sufficiently open mind to be willing to explore various possibilities until (hopefully) an answer may be found, even if that answer is an uncomfortable one in light of your personal dietary philosophy. Perhaps it isn't a dietary issue (endocrine issues are another possiblity, for example), but perhaps it may be dietary.


I wish you and your child well. Please let me know how you both get on.


Take care.

[Living Food]

Arky,

Ah, but the catch is that most pediatricians know absolutely nothing about nutrition. I agree with most of your points, but to think that pediatricians have the answers is just typical brainwashed non-thinking.

No offence meant :)

[Crystal2870]

My son was 13 months and a similar weight to this child, all my children have been breastfed (although Iwasnt raw) and are non vaccinated, they are vibrant and healthy, I dont think any parent would embark on any diet without researching it beforehand ?, I think if the weight was dropping drastically it would be of concern?...My son is just small he was only 5.5 lb at birth and its just the way he is..

There is a good book (I think it is available as an e book) by Jessica Fenton in the UK on bringing up Raw kids, also the book by Shazzie is a great resource too.

Arky can understand where you are coming from ! Doctors do have a place ! but I read somewhere that they can study 5 years to become a doctor yet only 3 days on nutrition ! to advise someone to give up breastfeeding and replace with fake milk is just crazy ! x

[Raw Angel Mom]

I'm not criticising raw-veganism; I'm simply pointing out that raw veganism is not a flawless dietary approach (no dietary approach, of any kind, is flawless, vegan or omnivorous, cooked or raw). Therefore, if your child's growth is halting, then it is entirely legitimate to question whether there may be some nutritional deficiency involved in the situation - simply indignantly dismissing your paediatrician for posing such a question does not serve your child's best interests, no matter how much you love your child, and no matter how much you love your raw-vegan dietary philosophy.

I wouldn't say no diet is flaw less. If you figure out your natural diet, it will be flawless as the animal figured that out. Life food is the way as it is found in nature. I did dismiss my pediatrician after that i trusted him and he gave two vaccinations in a row of my two month old baby. She scored perfect on her birth and never was she the same after these vaccinations. DISCERNMENT, Research, following your gut feeling yes, your intuition is a necessity to protect your child. It is raw food, stimulation with her brain and early intervention that saved her but most of all, it is my intuition and the right people place on my path that guided me to do the right decision for her after this tragedy. Nothing wrong to stick with a pediatrician but you need to discern and not to give your power away, meaning, you are the boss and you are the one to make the best decision for your child. You can bet that nobody has ever give a vaccination to my daughter ever. I MADE sure of that. You have to take and leave. Animals don't worry about their amount of zinc or iron or calcium they just eat the food they are guided too. I am talking about the animal in nature, not the farm animals or domestic animal. Nothing wrong to get blood test done to make sure you are on the right track but at some point, you will know without a doubt that you are.

All the best!

p.s It is true that they spent a huge amount of time to study all the drug from the pharmaceutical company far more then nutrition. Also, their nutrition course is also base from the food guide sponsor by the dairy farm association. This tell you a lot. You are the one to figure out what is best for your child by researching and if you can find a dietitian that is into raw food and step outside the box from this food guide. Sadly, it seems that the tendency from their school is to train them to be sale representative of the pharmaceutical.

[Gianni]

There's a great book on this subject called, How to Raise a Healthy Child in Spite of Your Doctor written by
Robert S. Mendelsohn M.D. Every new parent should have a copy and read it.

He doesn't recommend routine annual check-ups for healthy people, nor does he recommend vaccines.

[Crystal2870]

Raw Angel Mom, Im sorry about your daughter and can understand what pressure that you must have been under x I'd agree about the sponsoring side too, my health visitor came and admitted its suprising anyone breastfeeds with the amount of courses and literature they are given sponsored via the baby milk industry, shocking !

[Raw Angel Mom]

She is doing fantastic now. She eat only raw food and on occasion i don't make it a fuss if she wants to try organic vegan food at my favorite restaurant, but she loves her fruits the most. This year she finished top of her class, i was literally shock because in the beginning of the year, she couldn't focus. Today, it is like she awoke. Truly, your body can rejuvenate and heal.

When she was an infant, they try to pressure me also to give her formula, they have these weight chart. A baby always loses weight after they are born and then start to gain again. They would compare her weight from the day she was born versus when she started to gain weight. Anyway, i didn't want to give formula but i did supplement her under pressure. She would vomit the milk and i would use a pump to simulate my milk every hours, to produce more. I made so much milk that i had to freeze it at some point, lol.... I never had to supplement her again, and she was exclusively on my milk for 15 months then she had raw food with my milk up to 4 years. Anyway, i am so glad that this is behind me now and i am committed to speak up. Knowing what i know now, nobody would have convince me of supplementing her.

All the best

[Zoefzoef]

In the country where I was born and raised you go to the doctor when you are sick. Now I live in the US and I have to find ways on how to adapt to new rules of society while staying true to my own beliefs.
When my daughter was born 2 years ago, my midwife warned me that if I would not bring my child to well check ups I could potentially get in big trouble. Lets say you get in an accident or what not and you have to bring your child to the ER, if you then cant show any proof of regular doctor visit for your child, they can bring your child to social services and take her/him away. So we have been to a pediatrician 3 times in 2 years, to have her measured and weighed. Each time was a different doc because we didnt like the previous one.
Anyway.....

[drraw]

For some reason, I always have this conflicted feeling when reading this thread.

On one hand, I have practiced as my own physician since I was a teenager and I completely accept responsibility for it. I also have a perfect feedback loop. My body alerts me to things and I respond to them in the manner I feel appropriate and as a result I've always been very healthy. If I screw up, I have no one else to blame and can always engage a credentialed doctor, but in 20 years it hasn't happened yet.

The issue here when dealing with someone else -- especially a child who has specific growth stages and may not recover properly if certain things do not happen at certain times -- is that there is no feedback loop and that it is not possible to fully take responsibility.

I don't have the answer here as the mainstream doctors do have quite a bit of power to cause an unseen number of problems (health, financial, legal, etc.) but OTOH they do have a great level of observational knowledge and in their own way seem to think they are doing what is best for the patient.

--drraw

[MysticTree]

I get where you are coming from drraw but then again who exactly says that all children should hit their growth spurts at the exact same time. and in any case, the doctors can only go by an average of stages that are hit by children who mostly don't have a healthy lifestyle when it comes to food in the first place.

Part of the problem is the litigious society we live in. Doctors get sued. Doctors therefore, to protect themselves, must adhere to guidelines and it's sort of tough shit if the guidelines are screwed.

[adobegirl]

adobegirl: Why do you bother going to a doctor? He's obviously not providing any useful information or service (no surprise there, though). Why not save the money?

I used to be all about herbal medicine and didn't even want to hear about western medicine. As the years have gone by, I've realized there is benefit in both. There are some tests that are done through the western medicine that are helpful. It doesn't mean I have to use the treatment they want me to use, either for me or anyone in my family. Life is a balance for me. If the tests for my grandson had come back with anything wrong or out of balance, it would let me know that I need to do something to help it. I would choose natural healing for it, but would have been thankful that I knew, however I got the information.