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mum's the word

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Zaphirah
on 06-18-2008 at 08:04 AM (420 Views)
haven't said anything. as of Monday dh seems to be trying so hard. It's like he finally "joined" our family over the last 2 days. I'm not gonna say anything for a few more days. Usu he can't keep up w/anything new for more than 3 or 4 days, but *just in case* he's actually improving, I don't want to do/say anything to get in his way.

I WILL TELL HIM, just not right now.

sunshine-I'll call you tomorrow-will you be around? Today is mad-crazy. I'm having an IEP meeting-YES an I....E....P....MEETING! I got him an IEP cuz I'm da SpEd Bomb of Da Hills!
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  1. OneBite@aTime's Avatar
    Things are looking up!
  2. RickSims's Avatar
    You have my personal cell number right? Cause we'll be at the pool. So make sure to call that number.:)
  3. 's Avatar
    If hes engaged and trying, that is great! I think that his "bombshell" about his feelings about the kids was a big breakthrough for him. I'm glad you are being an open safe place for him to talk about his feelings, so he can move through them.
  4. 's Avatar
    What I think is that you need some friends that are intellectually interesting to you. I have very similar feelings toward my dh. I have never "loved" him the way I lusted and crazed after others in my past.But he is stable, a good provider, an attentive lover. There is no reason to create the "Ive never loved you" drama-but instead get a babysiter and go out to talk somewhere romantic about his comment on the kids--let him open his box of pain, and you yours-and play doctor for each other=)
  5. annieH's Avatar
    (((HUGS AGAIN)))
  6. Zaphirah's Avatar
    thick-you nailed it. he is all those things you said about your partner. i do love him, i just never *lusted* after him and after so many years I feel kinda "dead" right now. I DO NOT want any "I never loved you" drama-just like you said, that's one reason I haven't said anything because it feels so Degrassi (the original!), ya know? LOL!
  7. 's Avatar
    I struggled with the in love thing as well- but if you can work through it and decide to focus on what is excellent about your man, you can hold the family together strong. I had to do the same thing.After years of saying I am going to leave, I changed tactics (oddly, came soon after going raw) and I am so much happier- and so are DH and DD. I do not feel trapped anymore. I still am not "in love", but I feel joy everyday- maybe that is what I really needed,after all.


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