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Saira
12-14-2010, 08:58 AM
I really have no one to turn to, to share this with, but need to get it off my chest.

Two weeks ago something happened that I feel has changed my life.

I was an unheatlhy anxiety-ridden neurotic mother of 3 (ages 2, 7, and 9) with absolutely no energy. I had been on Cymbalta for 2 years for panic attacks, Vicoden for 2 years for my tilted pelvic condition/sciatic nerve pain from the birth of my son, a coffee addict for 4 years (up to 4 or 5 cups a day) in a desperate attempt to keep up with the kids, a smoker, and have had the eating habits of a fool since childhood. Basically, I was a complete trainwreck. Though we rarely ate meat, it was certainly not enough to compensate for our lifestyle.

No energy. Constant Stress. Bad Moods. Chest Pains. Migraines. Lethargic. Insomnia. Bad skin. Forgetful. Sad. Miserable. A terrible role model for my children.

And then, 2 weeks ago, I found out I was pregnant again. After trying for over a year to ween off the Cymbalta (and failing) I was finally able to do it cold turkey. Maybe the hormones played a role, I'm not sure. But then, two days later I found out I was having a miscarriage. Because it was so early, (6-8wks) they called it a 'chemical pregnancy' and dismissed me.

While that was hard to swallow, I do believe it was a blessing in disguise. Because ever since that day things have changed for me. Realizing that my body was so toxic I couldnt even provide a safehaven for an unborn child, I knew if I didn't change immediately the toxicity would swallow me whole. And my family as well.

That same day I stumbled upon a raw food site through a friend's facebook page. I digested everything there was to see there and moved on to the next. And the next. It was that AHA! moment we are all searching for. I immediately quit drinking coffee, almost quit smoking, quit all medications, cut out sugars, processed foods, refined foods, and meats from our diet, and have been on a mostly raw food and smoothie diet since that day. We have green smoothies for breakfast, fruits and ezekiel sprouted muffins for lunch, and another green smoothie with a great big raw salad with Sundrenchers dressing for dinner. A few days I've added in some rice or beans so my husband doesn't complain he's still hungry. He's tall and thin and could eat a house in one setting if I let him.

It's only been 2 weeks but I've already seen some major changes.

I feel light.
I've lost 7 pounds (I'm 5'2 and did weigh 112)
I have energy for the first time in YEARS.
I can keep up with my 2 year old.
I like being in the kitchen now.
I enjoy teaching my family about healthy living.
My skin is clearing up. And is beginning to glow.
I've been doing yoga again. Everyday.
I'm sleeping better. And waking better.
Detoxing sucks but is so worth it.

My husband and kids are very supportive. All but my 9 year old daughter,who is a little resistant on giving up her favorite foods. I'm trying to take it slower for her but also don't want to come off as wishy-washy or easy to manipulate, so I'm standing firm on this one. I imagine it will get easier as the crap foods make their way out of her system. Suggestions?

I still have ALOT of lower back pain. It actually got worse those first couple days, but I expected that to happen. I thought yoga would help re-align my hips but so far, it still really hurts. I don't want to be dependent on pain meds and I also don't want to be in pain. Maybe this is still part of the detox process? Advice?

I know I'm VERY new to this and VERY early in my journey to a healthier lifestyle but I think this forum will help me stay on track and committed :)

Aleesha Sattva
12-14-2010, 09:48 AM
for your pain... have you tried arnica? it helped my back pain tremendously... i took 3 tablets twice a day.

second, for your daughter. i've found that shining my light brightly and allowing others to simply watch was the best form of advertising i could give. my daughter who is 11 (soon to be 12 she reminds me often LOL) went high raw in jan this year. until then she had a horrid diet but it took her wanting to do this for it be successful. since then she's chosen to be vegetarian as well.

i didn't make my family eat the way i chose to eat... but they have changed their eating habits because of what i do because of what they see in me.

i wish you a wonderful journey and trust me... there are many more healing experiences coming your way! (((hugs)))

ray34iyf
12-14-2010, 09:53 AM
I don't have much to say other than I'm only 23 and I can really relate to all of that. I had my own personal hell with prescription medications and lifestyle stuff and I empathize totally.. oh and.... CONGRATULATIONS! That's so awesome and I pray that you keep feeling better and better! :D

blizzardfrisbee
12-14-2010, 01:21 PM
Great to see you on the forum! This is a wonderful place to be to help us on our journey. I am still learning--have had some ups and downs. I have seen a postive change though.

Saira
12-14-2010, 07:11 PM
I don't have much to say other than I'm only 23 and I can really relate to all of that. I had my own personal hell with prescription medications and lifestyle stuff and I empathize totally.. oh and.... CONGRATULATIONS! That's so awesome and I pray that you keep feeling better and better! :D

It's definitely a personal hell with prescription medications. I remeber specifically asking my doctor years ago NOT to put me on anything that would cause a dependence, that I couldn't easily quit taking. My fault for trusting him in the first place without doing any of my own research.

Saira
12-14-2010, 07:18 PM
for your pain... have you tried arnica? it helped my back pain tremendously... i took 3 tablets twice a day.

second, for your daughter. i've found that shining my light brightly and allowing others to simply watch was the best form of advertising i could give. my daughter who is 11 (soon to be 12 she reminds me often LOL) went high raw in jan this year. until then she had a horrid diet but it took her wanting to do this for it be successful. since then she's chosen to be vegetarian as well.

i didn't make my family eat the way i chose to eat... but they have changed their eating habits because of what i do because of what they see in me.

i wish you a wonderful journey and trust me... there are many more healing experiences coming your way! (((hugs)))

Thank you for the words of encouragement :)

I haven't heard of arnica but will certainly look into it if I can't get past this pain in the next couple weeks. I want to try yoga a little longer and LESS sitting at the computer because it seems sitting really makes it worse.

As far as my family goes.. my husband is in complete aggreement with the lifestyle change.. and actually WANTS to do this with me. He loves all the science behind it and is eager to learn with me. Which makes this so exciting for all of us :) I've already dumped out any processed foods and am using the glass jars for sprouting and have recycled all the boxed stuff. So at this point it's either eat what we make or don't eat at all! I don't want to buy a seperate set of foods for a 9 yr old, ya know? But we did have a nice talk earlier about ways for her to enjoy this change along with us. She has agreed to help me more in the kitchen and if she really hates a dish I will work with her to add/take away something in it to better suit her tastes. And I promised I'd make her more treats once my shipment of Alissa's goods gets here ;)

Baby steps... We'll get there, I know it!

x

freespirit
12-15-2010, 08:49 AM
I love your story!! it is incredibly inspiring and shows us how we attract the right things into our lives when we are open to them and it is the right time!!

As for your back pain- I was in ballet for a long time and while raw helps my aches and pains, the thing that helps my back the most is Bikram yoga. Hopefully you can find a studio in your area. Bikram focuses on the stetching the spine and hips specifically.

I also go to a chiropracter- which may help, I love it. but I had to look for someone I really liked. Females tend to be more receptive. just my thoughts.