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rawcakie
11-30-2010, 08:47 PM
Hello all! :)

I thought I'd give you some back story on myself:
For the past 8 years I have been incredibly healthy.. Last Summer I was drinking 2 green smoothies a day and ate a lot of raw vegan food.. however I caved to peer pressure. I know that sounds stupid seeing as I'm not in high school anymore, but I did.
A good friend of mine at the time put me and my son down a lot, and continually said I was raising my baby as a freak. She would constantly pick on me and my food choices, and tell me I was harming my baby by not letting him eat 'real food'. It hurt a lot but as I was a new Mum I felt a bit lonely so I thought I needed her friendship. We went back to a "normal" diet and were no longer ridiculed. I then took up cake decorating (a great passion of mine) and so cakes and frostings became a regular in our house (I had usually an order every week, sometimes up to 3!). I'm ashamed to say my 18 month old son and I ate cake and frosting almost every day (even at breakfast!).

A few weeks ago I started getting really sick and started vomiting. I thought I was pregnant and was horrified when I realised I wasn't, and that the reason I was so sick and gaining weight was from my own poor diet. I never imagined it would happen to me - I was the "health nut" of the family!
I realised I can't go on like this anymore. I couldn't even play with my son because I was so lethargic. I just sat and watched with a bloated gut (I was going to say belly - but no, it's a gut).

Last week I put us both on a healthier eating plan and have been incorporating more fruit and veges in each day. I have been 90% raw for the last 3 days and looking forward to continuing. I have 25kg (55lbs) to lose and I'm hoping to do so within the next year or two (I can no longer call it "baby weight" when my son is 18 months old ;) ).

I have a question about detox - when does it usually start? Last night I had SO much energy I felt like going for a run (it was pitch dark and raining unfortunately), but this morning I woke up feeling like I'd been hit by a truck. I had to go back to bed when my son had his nap, and it was the most heavy feeling sleep I've ever had. I struggled to wake up again and felt so groggy and foggy when I did. Is this detox already? I feel okay after some panadol but still really lethargic.

ps. The so-called "friend" is no longer in my life :)

KaleMama
12-01-2010, 09:53 AM
Hello and welcome!

What a wonderful story and I gotta say I'm glad that "friend" is no longer your friend. This is something I believe the Raw community experiences often. Those who don't know better simply need to be educated. My family was the same way and some of my friends think I'm crazy but when they see me now and the wonderful results (only 1month in) they're curious. I have explained to them them the principals of eating raw foods, how your body works and use examples to back it up. (feeling tired and sick after fast food, or steak). They may not move to being Raw right away but it will start a shift towards more healthy habits and eventually, you can't get healthier than Raw foods. Stay strong and KNOW in your heart that you're doing the right thing.

Congratulations on taking this big step for your health and most importantly, the little one's! Raising a child on Raw foods is the absolute most healthiest thing anyone can do (I will do this for mine when that happens). Things will work wonderfully for you and your little one with this new lifestyle. You're going to do wonderfully and achieve great results. :)

BTW: You can definitely continue your cake decorating passion while raw. I have seen and tasted wonders.

Many hugs and blessings for you on your new journey!

Keep RAWkin'!

seria
12-01-2010, 02:08 PM
Hi Rawcakie
i personally think that your friend didnt like u eating healthy because it probably reflected her unhealthy habits, real friends encourage and are intersted
i ate very unhealthy when my kids were little and really regret that because i was exhausted all the time and very miserable - my kids r now 18 and 19 and i wasted precious time being tired and miserable - young ones learn by us so hopefully the healthier u eat the healthier ur little one will eat Good luck take it easy on urself make lots so there is lots of healthy options to hand ,Alissa's has lots of great recipes i really like the website goneraw there is lots of recipes and pics - also i would reccomend lots of green juices x:)

blizzardfrisbee
12-01-2010, 07:22 PM
I have a friend that keeps saying things about me eating raw--like "no one else would agree with what I'm doing" "I don't agree with what you are doing" "how do I know that the things that I'm reading about raw are true?" I think she says these things because she knows that I am feeling so much better-- not on any meds and she has all kinds of health issue. She actually is what I call a healthy unhealthy person.

rawcakie
12-02-2010, 04:34 PM
Thank you all for the nice welcome! :)

I do agree that my healthy eating habits 'forced' her to look at her own diet. Her son is 17 months (one month younger than mine) and since the age of around 9 months he has been fed junk food and takeaway food. Before he was 1 he could recognise the McDonalds big 'M' and was eating his own Happy Meal (including drinking the Coke which his Mum thought was wonderful as he could drink it through the straw). She knows it's bad for him because she won't tell her fiance that he eats this sort of food while he's at work.
I hate that I found myself giving my own son this sort of food when we were with them - and even when we weren't! It just became normal.

Thankfully my son prefers healthier food like vegetarian sushi rolls and will happily devour one or two for lunch.

I've decided not to switch my son to 100% raw, or even 80% as yet. He will be around 50% raw while I work out my own diet. I think it would be foolish of me to put him on a diet that I myself have not worked out yet. I want to research thoroughly and introduce supplements to him beforehand so I can be confident in knowing I will be raising a healthy raw child :)

Moe2Love
12-04-2010, 09:33 PM
Listening to your experience has really made me thankful that I have support from other friends who are RAW as well.. I'm glad you've seen past the social genera and done your own thing

spicyfull
12-07-2010, 06:06 AM
I wish you everything you need to Stay RAW..........Welcome to MY World.