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Cashew
03-17-2010, 08:09 PM
Hi all!

Being raw is not new to me - I was raw for 6 months from Feb 2006 thru July 2006. In fact, those of you who were on this site waaay back then may remember me - I was/am Apples'nAvos. For various reasons, I've decided to post under a new username (I hope I'm not breaking any rules!).

Anyway, I LOVED being raw and dove in headfirst, but 5 months in to it, my ex-husband and I separated, I went through a nasty divorce followed by a very unhealthy relationship pretty soon after that that resulted in a restraining order (against the other person). Just after the minor details of the separation were settled, I stopped eating raw and went back to cooked food. And, well, 4 years later, here I am. :)

What made me go raw again? Well, it's been an incredibly intense 4 years and I finally feel in a place where I WANT to be raw again. 3 years ago, I gained about 30-35lbs back on a SAD diet and have been trying DESPERATELY for the past 2 years to lose those gained pounds - from Weight Watchers to trying to simply listen to what my body wanted, but no luck, and I was getting incredibly frustrated.

Then, on Saturday night I had a dream, and in the dream I was at the grocery store shopping for vegetables. In the dream, I was raw again and had this incredibly happy feeling. It's difficult to describe, but I was HAPPY! And in the dream, I was telling myself "yes, you CAN do it again. It IS do-able!" When I woke up, I felt sad that I wasn't raw, and I remembered how great I felt when I was raw. I began thinking about it, and then decided that I will go raw again. And here I am - day 3 in :)

I'm a little nervous about the permanence of it, but try not to think about it too much, just deal with the 'here and now'.

Thick
03-17-2010, 11:34 PM
I'm glad you're back, if a little jealous that They let you change your username=)

How amazing about your dream! Your body was speaking loud and clear!=)

RawKnitster
03-17-2010, 11:58 PM
What a wonderful message to receive! Happy raw dreams to you!

You've got it right. Don't think ahead. Here and now will get you there. :)

spicyfull
03-18-2010, 04:08 AM
Welcome Back.......

Rawcstacy
03-18-2010, 10:46 AM
Anyway, I LOVED being raw and dove in headfirst, but 5 months in to it, my ex-husband and I separated



Was this due to to you insisting to eat raw?:confused:


I'm glad you're back, if a little jealous that They let you change your username=)



Why so jealous, I thought it was quite nutty (pun intended)?:D

Cashew
03-18-2010, 02:15 PM
[QUOTE=Rawcstacy;597275]Was this due to to you insisting to eat raw?:confused:

The divorce wasn't as a result of my eating raw food per say, however, I do strongly believe that what Alissa mentions in her book about once eating raw, all sorts of emotional baggage may be brought to light, is true. My marriage was not a healthy one (in fact, it was TOTALLY wrong for me!) and I think that eating raw perhaps brought to light all of the emotional issues I was previously ignoring while on a SAD diet.

But I don't BLAME raw at all - in fact, it was the best thing that could have happened to me!! :)

Rawcstacy
03-18-2010, 11:11 PM
But I don't BLAME raw at all - in fact, it was the best thing that could have happened to me!! :)

RIGHT ON!!!!(hooray smiley)

ZaeZae
03-19-2010, 04:20 PM
Hi Cashew - thanks for the warm welcome! Good luck on your journey this time around.

I agree - day by day is all we can do. In fact, my coach said, just focus on each meal is a new opportunity to eat raw. Love that!!!