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rawrawks
09-13-2009, 11:32 AM
So I posted about my bladder infection or whatever it might be..I see it as a purging or whatever.
My liver griping seems to be related to anxiety and anger. eeek

But as I have been looking at it I am seeing where it stemmed.

Now in Louise Hays book "You Can Heal Your Life" I saw where bladder challenges stem from being pissed off.

So was seeing where that might be true for me.
One thing is, as a result of tax stuff and solving some, I had to contact a person from a past realtionship. This seemed to raise some issues for me. Feelings of upsetness I suppose. And familiar remnders that nothing has changed wth him and the very same things that bugged me were an issue again. (Patience is a virtue...so I wait for an answer to a question I asked him, which I did for thirty years!).

Also had a challenge at my work. Cant say what because I do not want to post it publicly in case they read...haha.

Anyway keep seeing where I am so out of sync with these folks. On so many levels. So in the ol "in ths economy" mentality, I guess I fear looking for something else, needing a certain amount to pay my bills and hoping i could meet those.

Or do I see what value I have there and stay. Its a long story and hard to put it all here. For the value I impart to the lil ones, its worth it to handle the parents and all that brings. Yet how great if had a job that was congruent and authentic to me and who I am and what I want.

Like staying for the lil ones and my love for them and all I impart in the way of out of the box thinking. Or moving on to something that fullfills me on a deeper level????

So this is what came up for me in looking into the stem of my unwellness today. To me, there is ALWAYS an emotional/mental component to unwellness.

Recent events with them has created some of these feelings. I see in Lousies book just now...reading my symptoms, the source is not being able to say what I want to say, hearing things I dont want to hear and anger. Eeeeek. I see where all of this is what I have been feeling and unable to get a grip on.
There is a corresponding message of how to think so as to resolves these....with peaceful and lovng thoughts.

As always, all of you are such a source of encouragement and support and i look forward to hearing what your thoughts are.

Veganforlife
09-13-2009, 12:05 PM
Hmmm...well...since I went Raw I rarely get upset and I have had some major life events to trigger me to go to that ugly place.
My advice? Keep eating 100% Raw. Surround yourself with Raw reading material. Get busy doing positive things even if it's something silly like putting away that pile of clothes. Move forward with Life and Thoughts. Take time for you. Look in the mirror daily and say, "Wow! I am a heck of a person! I like me!"
I wish you luck with this healing journey.

Aleesha Sattva
09-13-2009, 12:09 PM
I moved your thread to the right section... since this about your personal growth. Just a little reminder to you (and everyone) to please place things in the right section.

And... a huge hug for you as you discover more about yourself and then find ways to fulfill your needs. Life is about living. And it's full of choices. We choose to be happy, we also choose to be unhappy/angry/unfulfilled etc.

I wish you greatness!

margoss
09-13-2009, 12:09 PM
I like that book, have had it for a long time. She's such an inspiration to many. I agree with many things it & you said. I saw my M last month, I had lower back pain & intense jaw pain.tmj flare up bc I didn't say what I wanted to say. Once I realized it & let it go (many times) I felt much better the next day, resolved in 2.
Only thing I can say about work is that sometimes we have to step back & look at what it's doing to us. It's so good to want to stay to help others but at times it eventually leads to issues for us. I left something a few months ago, I really didn't want to & we had to give something up bc I left but I feel soo much better. Maybe look for something else & see where it leads. I'm not good with politics, brown nosing so I do not fit in with most places. I'm taken as a snob, hateful or whatever bc I don't join in or if I'm there & included, I usually say something out of the click & it starts. I'm taking it that you're in early childhood development? If you are & go someplace else, families may follow you...this happens sometimes.
Now you know what's causing issues, need to figure out how to keep it from hurting you.

rawrawks
09-13-2009, 12:51 PM
thank you all sooo much. Sorry Aleesha thpught I put ths under personal growth..ooopsy. Thanks for the hug and yes I CHOOSE HAPPY>woohooooo



Hmmm...well...since I went Raw I rarely get upset and I have had some major life events to trigger me to go to that ugly place.
My advice? Keep eating 100% Raw. Surround yourself with Raw reading material. Get busy doing positive things even if it's something silly like putting away that pile of clothes. Move forward with Life and Thoughts. Take time for you. Look in the mirror daily and say, "Wow! I am a heck of a person! I like me!"
I wish you luck with this healing journey.

Lucy, thank you for this soooo much. I rarely get upset either that is why this took me by surprise.The actual things are tiny things. Nothing to be upset about and especially not angry...ugh.

This keeps coming up for me to go ALL RAW. And what I surround with and busy myself with,,yes I need to put away clothes hahaha.
AND you were right... "WOW I AM ONE HECK OF A PERSON". My friend said that yesterday and today. Now I say it to me too. This helped so very much sweet one. I appreciate you alot.

Thank you Margoss this helped too! You all rawk!!!

Raw Angel Mom
09-14-2009, 08:18 AM
I use Louise Hay book from time to time. Raw food does bring to life dead emotion, ouch, ....

You are doing a fantastic job and bravo for having the courage to look inside.

I hear you about the past coming back, not always easy but we are still here ;)

Have you seen the new DVD of Debbie Ford about the dark shadow. Quite interesting and helpful.

I highly recommend that you do the positive affirmation from Louis Hay, it seems to work for me for several physical problem.

All is well and be proud of you!