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kidkid
07-13-2009, 01:31 AM
If you can believe it, after all this time reading about raw veganism and hearing about detox (and even making a post about the beginning of my detoxing experiences), I forgot detox was gonna happen to me. I was 100% for the first time for like 5 or 6 days, and I started getting SO TIRED. After the tiredness came extreme emotional vulnerability. Thank god my sweet brother was there to hold my hand through that. I was revisiting bad childhood memories, old emotional pains. It literally felt like things I hadn't thought of in years were just oozing up to the surface. I was feeling like shit, crying all day, sleeping a lot, being snappy and crabby. And then i got a cough and I started feeling kind of achy -- well not achy, just uncomfortable in my body, restless and ill. Eating didn't seem to be making me feel nourished. I blamed it on how much fruit I'd been eating, too much sugar and all that. I went back to a SAD diet, completely convinced in that moment that eating only raw food was totally bogus.

The bodily sensations combined with the emotional stuff made me feel so weird and scared that i completely forgot all about the idea of detox! I even forgot that I had made a post about my tiredness and been reassured that it was normal. Just....forgot! I went back to a SAD diet because it felt so wrong to be eating in a way that made me feel bad. It was counterintuitive. After eating SAD for a few days, I wasn't crying all the time (I felt emotionally normal I guess) and I wasn't sleeping as much. I did have strong food cravings and felt sluggish, but not restless and uncomfortable anymore. I still have a bit of a cough.

So...sigh....am I to believe that this ordeal was detox? And that it wasn't the fruit that was making me feel bad but toxins in my body that (like the old bad memories) were coming up and being purged? And eating SAD food made me feel 'normal' only because it was clogging up that purging process? That's the idea, but wow, I wasn't expecting it to FEEEEL that horrible and scary. And I never thought detox would be so strong on an emotional level. Has anyone else experienced something similar? It was actually completely overwhelming. I think a part of me never really believed in detox, even though i had read about it. In fact, part of me still feels really nervous about entering that state. I have to remember that the healing process is like a journey, in that it has its painful, difficult parts along with its bright and happy parts. detoxing actually takes courage! (So oh my god, thank you, all you out there who have lead the way simply by going through your own healing processes.)

I'm sticking it out this next time around!:)

T-Bird
07-13-2009, 01:54 AM
So...sigh....am I to believe that this ordeal was detox? And that it wasn't the fruit that was making me feel bad but toxins in my body that (like the old bad memories) were coming up and being purged?

I don't know what to tell you about that except that I've been there. I've hit days -multiple day peroids - where raw meant nothing to me - where whether or not I stayed raw or not was pointless. I managed to get through it just because the habit was so strong and I was so weak and tired that it seemed like I couldn't be bothered to make a decision on it. Wierd and illogical - and I am a very logically based person!!!

Even Id-ing it as detox didn't mean anything, so all I can say is best of luck if/when it comes up again. Have a stong habit formed, and plenty of your fav raws on hand and in easy reach.

iluvmangos
07-13-2009, 06:41 AM
So...sigh....am I to believe that this ordeal was detox?

Yeah, it was detox. I haven't had it as bad as you have described, but I've had some tired and emotional days. Right now, I'm all zitty. Yay.

Tenuho
07-13-2009, 07:16 AM
haha....yea ive had times like that aswell....in the long run though theyre good for getting you committed to raw...

because the sad food ends up makin you feel worse and when you look at sad food you just associate it with how bad it makes you feel.....otherwise its be so hard to stay away from sad......

Veganforlife
07-13-2009, 07:23 AM
Oh yeah. Just listen and feel your body. If you need to rest, do so. You feel good and feel like working out - do so. Your body is going through a major transformation - a GOOD transformation. For some it's rougher than others. It's all good...really...
drink enough water to, that helps flush the SAD/CRAP gunk out.

rawfoods
07-14-2009, 04:54 PM
It could've also been stress-induced. Sometimes your body gets stressed from adjusting to new diets - even if you aren't aware that you are stressed, your body still could be. My blog has a great video on discipline, and it may be able to help deal with the stress of changing to a new diet.

kat4
07-14-2009, 05:50 PM
I think I've posted this link before on this forum.
It's about the social and emotional aspects of eating raw.
I found it really interesting...and could relate to a lot of things she was talking about.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=icsFTnltYuY
There should be several parts for a total of about 45 min.

kidkid
07-15-2009, 01:17 PM
I think I've posted this link before on this forum.
It's about the social and emotional aspects of eating raw.
I found it really interesting...and could relate to a lot of things she was talking about.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=icsFTnltYuY
There should be several parts for a total of about 45 min.


I just watched it and I think it speaks perfectly to what I was feeling! thank you so much for that!

kat4
07-17-2009, 11:00 AM
I just watched it and I think it speaks perfectly to what I was feeling! thank you so much for that!

Glad you liked it. I thought it was soooo interesting and spot on to what a lot of people are experiencing when going raw.