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RawHeaven
05-11-2009, 04:28 PM
This is not addressed to anyone in particular, but it's how I'm feeling and something I've come to terms with in regards to raw foods and my personal journey and challenges adopting the rawfood lifestyle and subsequently changing my life.

My health was at rock bottom when I began researching raw foods in early 2007 and I was in terrible shape physically, mentally and emotionally. I discovered a few raw websites, was inspired and eventually found this site. I ordered the book Living on Live Food and it really resonated with me. And more importantly it worked for me. I completely committed myself 100% to eating raw foods and it was not that difficult. I was excited and super motivated. If I could've bottled my enthusiasm at that time, I would be a billionnaire right now. I reaped all of the benefits that we've heard about from those before us, shed 50 lbs and regained my vitality.

Fast forward 2 years later to January 2009. I ate a veggie wrap and fries for lunch on a date with a hot guy. I'll blame it on the hot guy who distracted me. Lol. I'm just kidding. It wasn't about him, it was all about me. I then started slipping again by telling myself it was okay to have some cooked vegan foods, "I can handle it and my body didn't seem to react negatively to that vegan wrap....so ahhh, this will be okay....". This escalated to a 3 month period of me eating a much higher percentage of cooked veggie foods and a much lower percentage of raw foods. My blender began collecting dust and I eventually began delving into SAD processed snacks, like Hershey bars, Newman's Own treats, going out to eat at regular restaurants with friends and things like this. I even had fried tempura and huge bowl of noodles during this escapade. One evening I had two big bowls of it tempura udon ~ I actually ordered two servings. I began having an insatiable appetite for carbs. :eek: That's what cooked food does to me. On a physical level, the results were obvious. My abdomen began expanding even though "I wasn't eating that much", I experienced reduced and difficult to release BM's, skin eruptions, lackluster looking skin really, the blues/fluctuating emotions, painful periods with cramps (again) and continued cravings for food 24/7. All day long, craving carbs and junk and feeling like CRAP. My weight hasn't changed but it's the equivalent of being in a theatre production, with a packed house, the lights and sound aren't working properly and no one can hear or see you. Well, not eating 100% Raw foods for me personally was like not being able to hear myself and function. Seeing the world through a much different lens.

I know what works for me and it's consuming 100% Raw foods. I have regained my vitality, vibrancy and motivation since getting back on track. I am a believer in what Alissa Cohen talks about in reference to not eating cooked foods. IT DOES AWAKEN CRAVINGS and makes it much more difficult for you to stay on track and in line with your goals. If your goals are to be a raw foodist and you want to do it the easy way, just eat 100% Raw. If you want to experience challenges, frustration and physical backlashes, then go back and forth eating cooked foods. I'm not talking about when we succumb to a craving. This could be part of your journey and it happens sometimes. It simply helps to give yourself a great big hug and make the next meal a raw one without judgement. But if you start out with the mindset that you can have a cooked food treat here and there, I think you're setting yourself up to be on a rollercoaster. This is just my opinion and from my personal experience and I wish to share it for anyone who it may help.

We all approach this path from different places and it is important to stay true to yourself and do what works best for yourself, listen to your body and all of that but let's not forget this forum was created by Alissa Cohen whose beliefs run in the direction of eating a 100% Raw Foods Diet or High Raw or eating only raw foods (however you define it) and that any consumption of cooked foods will lead to cravings. I know it's true, I lived it. I'm all for approaching raw from different standpoints if this is what works for you, but I simply think it's confusing to those who've read her book and are trying to follow the 30 day challenge to offer conflicting viewpoints on this site in particular. Although Alissa is not the only raw food pioneer I have learned from, she has been very influential in me being able to stay Raw and I think we owe it to her not to sway from her program (on this site). I just felt this needed to be communicated and put out there and you do not necessarily need to agree with me. I just needed to say it. Thank you for listening.

Crystal

T-Bird
05-11-2009, 04:36 PM
But Crystal.....what happened about the hot guy?????

RawHeaven
05-11-2009, 04:38 PM
But Crystal.....what happened about the hot guy?????

T-Bird you crack me up. lol. He's my bf now and he's still hot. :p

T-Bird
05-11-2009, 04:42 PM
T-Bird you crack me up. lol. He's my bf now and he's still hot.

Woohoo! You go girl!

Are you swaying him into the "light side"?

commoncents
05-11-2009, 04:48 PM
T-Bird you crack me up. lol. He's my bf now and he's still hot. :p

You got the man and 100% Raw. You rock RawHeaven!!!

And Amen to your post above giving honor and respect to Alissa Cohen who made Raw possible for so many of us.

RawHeaven
05-11-2009, 04:48 PM
Woohoo! You go girl!

Are you swaying him into the "light side"?

Thank you! You are sweet.

Regarding the light side. Absolutely not, but would be very happy if he decides to come over. I think becoming Raw definately needs to come from within. He takes really good care of himself, eats a lot of greens/raw foods and is an exceptional human being. I'm very careful not to tell anyone what to eat. This statement that I've shared is directed at those lovely people who choose to be Raw and to share what I've learned along the way.

a1icia
05-11-2009, 04:59 PM
I'm so glad you shared your story, Crystal. You've been such a positive force for me since I signed up and I've always appreciated your empowering posts and replies.

Like you, my body does not function properly eating cooked foods. My entire life, I've been searching to get to this point - to have a revelation about what makes my body work and what doesn't. Raw foods have really been the answer I was searching for. I'm giving my best effort to stay 100% raw, knowing the consequences if I don't. However, I'm not perfect and understand I may slip. It's a learning process.

Thank you for sharing and congratulations on getting back on track and feeling good.

RawHeaven
05-11-2009, 06:03 PM
Thank you commoncents and Alicia! I appreciate your comments & well wishes. We are all certainly here to learn from one another. Thank you for sharing.

JCB44
05-11-2009, 06:13 PM
Rawheaven

Great post, you could put my name there at times, your post WILL help me stay focused and grounded. Thanks,

Colorawdo girl
05-11-2009, 06:28 PM
You Rawk raw heaven!!! Great thread!!!!!

OOPs forgot to say I love the "give yourself a great big hug part" and make the next meal without judgement...that is cool!

RawKnitster
05-11-2009, 06:30 PM
I have to agree with you. I won't eat a single bite of cooked food. However harmless it may seem, it opens the door to more and more cooked foods. Been there, done that. Too many times. Not getting back on that roller coaster. I never liked roller coasters anyway.

Thanks for sharing your raw story. :)

Colorawdo girl
05-11-2009, 08:14 PM
I wanted to say, I so appreciate Alissa for providing this place for all to come and be welcomed and loved, wherever they are at in their raw journey. And many for being the love and support and strongholds for those who are challenged and coming up new to raw life. We are all so very blessed for this place. thank you.

qfmother
05-11-2009, 10:11 PM
I am a recovering food addict and I feel exactly the same way. For me - abstinence is much easier than moderation. I don't know if I'll always feel that way, but right now I know that I can't even take one bite of cooked food. I can't handle moderation.

People tell me they could never have enough willpower to eat all raw. But they don't get it - I don't have enough willpower to not eat all raw. Of course there are many other great reasons to eat all raw, but my current focus is my food addiction and stopping my long-time pattern of yo-yo dieting and obesity.

RawHeaven
05-11-2009, 10:15 PM
Thanks everyone for your kind words and pearls of wisdom. I appreciate you!! (((Big Hugs!)))

Hmm, well one of the reasons I wanted to share a part of my recent story is because I've decided to take a rest from posting and the internet in general. In sharing what recently happened with my cooked food bingeing (what I call it), I wanted to plant something positive about what I've learned. I am heeding the call to fast from media, internet etc and stay grounded in my truth which has much to do with being resilient with my goals. With regards to raw foods I believe everyone can do 100% from the start and I also believe that eating cooked foods is an addiction that is not unlike any other. If I can begin to eat raw foods full-time while being on 4 different narcotic pain medications and after recuperating from 15 reconstructive bone operations, experiencing extreme physical pain and depression, I know anyone can. If we were alcoholics, we wouldn't be saying it's okay to have "just one drink" for example. We would probably consider this nuts! And I deem going back to the raw foods we were born to eat as very similar. I come forth with making this statement whether or not it's agreed upon or not. So on that note, I probably should shut it down because I have grown away from pretending otherwise. It's not the same thing as understanding we are all where we are. I do absolutely understand this and respect where anyone is on their journey in life and with this process, but one thing I'm not is an enabler or someone who can keep my mouth shut when I see the truth. :p So it is time for me to move on.

Thank you so much for sharing and helping me grow on this forum! Oh, I've learned a lot. I'll see you again in cyberspace when I get my blog up.

Much peace!

Stay Raw. :D
Crystal

RawHeaven
05-11-2009, 10:19 PM
I don't have enough willpower to not eat all raw. Of course there are many other great reasons to eat all raw, but my current focus is my food addiction and stopping my long-time pattern of yo-yo dieting and obesity.

I completely understand this and I couldn't have worded it any better! Bless you QFMother.

Ilse W.
05-12-2009, 12:50 AM
RawHeaven, thanks for all the wisdom you have been so willing to share with us. I will miss your posts, but understand the need to get away from mass media to clean out the cobwebs. I wish you all the best. I'll heed your advise to stay 100% raw, because just like qfmother said, it's less difficult than to keep falling off the wagon and having to pick yourself up.

Eva
05-12-2009, 03:22 AM
Crystal... We're so blessed to have you around too.

I have to completely agree with so many things you said. Alissa Cohen's way really resonates with me (a lot of aspects anyways!). She really has put the information out there in a book that is very approachable and easy to use.

I love embracing wherever people are and that you are not trying to tell your boyfriend what to eat or to bring him over to the light side. But still -- dang it feels good to be 100%! Raw rawks! :)

Thanks for sharing!

Colorawdo girl
05-12-2009, 05:44 AM
rawheaven, thank you so much for all you have added here to this forum. we will miss you. I see myself going that way at some point as I too rest from all media often.

I just read your post about living space. woweee. You have such value here and we will all be blessed with your presence when and if you can return.

Bless you, we love you and you rawk on in your raw walk. Hugs and tons of love to you,Bette