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Colorawdo girl
03-28-2009, 08:56 AM
I have been thinking about the posts about jobs and how the boss says you cannot eat or drink while working. Or they want you to be more social with your eating.

Wonder how many of us are free to leave the people where they stand. Wish them a silent blessing and move on. Let them be, to do what they do or do not do. And move on with our own life.

I had been accustomed to not know myself and who I wanted in my inner circle.When I came to a knowing, an inner knowing, the people I drew and attracted as well as enjoyed and was inspired by, that was profound!!!!!
A whole new crew.yay!

I know as soon as I meet a person, if they are a kindred spirits of sorts or one to wish a blessing in love and not take them inside. Not that they are wrong or bad or unworthy. It is simply that they are not for me.Choosing lovingly.All without feeling a need to defend me! I can and will help them in this life and love them however, if they need anything. Loving others exactly where they are and exactly where they are not.

I love this quote:


"You must dare to disassociate yourself from those who would delay your journey... Leave, depart, if not physically, then mentally. Go your own way, quietly, undramatically, and venture toward trueness at last."



There are those who knowingly or unknowingly would stop us on our beautiful path. Slow us down. Divert us. Drag on us. Be it jealousy, discomfort in themselves, feeling threatened in some way by us or whatever it is. It is inside of them. It is not about us and never will be. Let us shine on.


Do we have the courage to move on when it does not appear to be, or clearly is not working? Wishing them love and silent blessing while taking our leave? Lovingly deciding what is or is not for us...choosing another path.

Sometimes we even stay a time until the purpose in connection with that person is fulfilled.

Mine has been across the board. People shifts, personal growth shifts, geographic ones too! HUMONGOUS. What a ride!

Who and what have you bypassed in your life as you grow and transform?
Relationships,friendships, places and spaces. I would love to hear.

spicyfull
03-29-2009, 02:21 AM
Some are brought into our lives....For a Reason.........For a Season or for a LifeTime.

Colorawdo girl
03-29-2009, 07:37 AM
spicyfull....Oh thanks.I have read that poem too and I love it. Funny I thought about it as I posted this thread. I so believe we are all brought together to teach and be taught,to serve and be served, in some way, in that part of our lives. Sometimes its short and sometimes it is longer time or even a lifetime in cases.

The beauty part, the bonus,(my favorite part) is seeing, usually in hindsight, what that was all for. The life lessons, the love, the understanding, the commonality,all of it. Too great!!

Anyway, its neat to hear how raw in particular, brought about such transformations, that one chooses to move away from situations or jobs or something.