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RawFoodGirl
07-01-2008, 10:23 AM
Hello everyone! My name is Ashley and I am 23 years old. I live in Orlando, FL with my husband, 4 cats, 2 dogs and bird. Today is my very first day on the raw food diet and I am very excited about starting it.

I have always been a little tubbier than most girls. However, weight really wasn't a huge problem for me until I moved out into the real world, away from my then sheltered life. The taste of food and the freedom of being able to eat what I wanted really did become an addiction for me. My husband and I don't really cook so we take the easy way out by always eating fast food. Although it hasn't done much to his figure, it certainly has mine.

I have spent years trying different diets and promising myself that I will start eating better. However, I always seem to fail. I can never fully make it through an entire week without wanting a single sip of coca cola which then leads to the breaking of a spiraling crap food cycle. Once the cycle goes into action, I then fall off my wagon and continue back with my crappy lifestyle. I, of course, feel depressed and helpless once again which then leads me to another fad diet to try. It's literally gotten to the point where my husband doesn't "hear" me anymore. I no longer have that at home support system due to previously failed missions.

I know deep down that I need to look beyond all of the failure and to try to make a commitment to myself. I don't need to do this diet for anyone but myself so for that very reason, there is no reason as to why I can't stay strong and to follow through with something. I know that the ending result will not only give me my self confidence and happiness back, but it will also give me my health back.

This very reason is what has led me to want to start the Raw Food journey. Honestly, it's not just about losing weight. It is more about my inner and outer self of health. My given challenge will first be to make it through the week. If I can get through the very first week, I will definitely be proud of myself and will then continue to set higher standards for myself. :)

Veganforlife
07-01-2008, 10:30 AM
Hey! Welcome! Get a hold of Alissa's book and DVD - two excellent tools to help one in their raw journey. AND read, read, read, all you can. Instead of grabbing a cookie, chip, pop, whatever, READ.
And oh yeah - GREEN SMOOTHIES!!!

RawFoodGirl
07-01-2008, 10:36 AM
I definitely want the book as well as dvd. However, my husband doesn't see me following through with this new lifestyle; therefore, he wont allow me to buy anything geared towards it. Yesterday we went shopping and he wouldn't allow any organic products as he feels its non-needed. I feel like once he really see's that I'm really serious about this, he will then support it by allowing me to purchase things towards it.

Veganforlife
07-01-2008, 11:03 AM
Pfffftttt! Won't "allow" you? Hmmph!!!! That's why I have 2 dogs and no significant other.
If I were you? I'd be more determined then ever to show him!!!

RawFoodGirl
07-01-2008, 11:12 AM
I know it sounds horribe...but I kind of did bring it upon myself. I've been on many diets and have bought many different foods for those diets. Atkins, weight watchers, etc. I usually cave in to my cravings which then begins my downward spirale of failing the diet. So with that, the food usually only gets eaten by him.

smoothiegirl
07-01-2008, 02:11 PM
:) Hello rawfoodgirl,

Congratulations on your choice to go raw. You need to see this video
at www.kangenwatergirl.info
Click the movie selection at the bottom of the page. There is a colon movie of what the SAD does to our bodies. Helps me to stay raw when you know what that garbage does to your body. Oh yea! there is a interesting video on here somewhere of McDonald's fries. What they do in your body. I had to go raw due to health problems so you made the right choice this early so you don't have any health problems later in life. It will catch up w/you.
Lots of luck!:)

lizzyrose
07-01-2008, 02:20 PM
I don't know where you are in Orlando, but if you happen to be near Turkey Lake, they just opened a new Whole Foods there that is absolutely amazing... it rivals most other Whole Foods I've been to. Of course, it's not cheap, but I promise even your hubby is likely to be impressed by the beauty of the healthy food there! They even have a BBQ bar with wings and a whole bunch of other stuff that excited my SAD boyfriend! I live over in the Tampa area and come to Orlando once every few weeks (my bf lives in Metrowest). I've always eaten pretty health but am pretty new to the raw experience and would love to talk with you more about it. It's can be hard at first but so worth it! And I agree with veganforlife... now it's up to you to prove to him you can do it!

oceanee
07-01-2008, 02:25 PM
Hi there ~ I wish you all the best and I totally agree with the above to read read and read some more. Use this site as support as you will need it and do not get discouraged from anyone. If you want this, you will find the strength but you will need the support from like minded people.

As you educate yourself on the benefits of raw, organic , etc hopefully some will sink in with hubby and you can both choose together your own food choices. It takes time so be patient and forgiving. Keep in mind the health aspect above all and know that knowledge is strength and power !

Green Smoothies are key to success !!!

Join the 30 day challenge when you are ready !

Oceanee

jacsam
07-01-2008, 09:42 PM
It's great to have you here....be sure to read Alissa's book and watch her DVD, they really are key to understanding the raw food LIFESTYLE....this is way more than a diet, it's a way of living and a beautiful one at that.