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Fennec
05-31-2008, 09:31 AM
Hi everyone!

I've been ghosting here for a while.

I'm a 20-year-old female residing in northwestern Michigan (lower peninsula), also known as THE MIDDLE OF NOWHERE. I was born and raised in Massachusetts, and then I lived in Florida for a couple of months before coming here.

To make a long story short, I was a vegan for two years. This was done cold-turkey, and believe me, it infuriated my mother, lol. She assumed it was just a "phase" but eventually realized that I was serious. Yet unfortunately, I've fallen off the track by returning to SAD. This started last September when my mother, father and I ate at a diner in Georgia; there was literally NOTHING vegan or even vegetarian, nor any way to substitute the dishes. Ever since, I have been suffering from some health problems.

The challenge I now face is where I live. I have been experiencing great difficulty in finding a job, so I rely on whatever is in the house. However, because I live with my boyfriend's family, his grandfather decides what foods are to be bought. Believe me when I say that vegetables are nonexistent in this household. You know those pre-made salad blends? Two bags are bought once a month... and those bags are the only source of vegetables. Otherwise, all of the foods here include pastries, white flour breads, sandwich meats, Tyson chicken products, and fish. I find it rather odd that the grandfather states "tree-hugging hippies" (by that, he means raw foodists, vegans and vegetarians) to be "unhealthy" and yet he is clinically obese, suffers from diabetes, and is in so much pain that he takes the medicinal equivalent to heroin. He once told me that it is apparently a medical miracle to saturate salad with bacon grease...um...okay?

I really don't understand what's with such people. It reminds me of when I was a vegan and a friend of mine (who lives on chocolate donuts and deep-fried foods) said that she eats Monte Carlo sandwiches almost daily. She noted that because she is fine, the claim about the nutritional benefits to being a vegan/vegetarian/raw foodist must be inaccurate.

Anyway, the point is that I want to try to be a raw foodist. This lifestyle has called to me since I was 11 or 12 for the ethical, health, and spiritual reasons. As a vegan, I felt much healthier. I wasn't bloated, breathed easier, had more energy, etc. (And yes, I also want to return to my weight. I'm 125-128, but used to be 110-115. Considering that I'm only 5'3", this is a healthy goal.) Since tomorrow is the start of the next monthly challenge, I figured it'd be the best time to try this out because of the support.

Let's hope I can do this!

Raw Yogini
05-31-2008, 01:56 PM
Welcome! Yes, you CAN do this! Best wishes.

Pilgrim
05-31-2008, 03:09 PM
Wow, you are facing some challenges. But this group is very supportive. Good luck!

Fennec
05-31-2008, 09:12 PM
Wow, you are facing some challenges. But this group is very supportive. Good luck!

I've noticed through ghosting that this group is very supportive, and that's exactly what I need. So thanks! :)

Frugal Raw
06-01-2008, 12:26 AM
Welcome!! I wish you the best of rawesome health!!

tanishamarshall
06-01-2008, 01:07 AM
Welcome to the board. Sounds like you've been through a lot but if you can conquer vegan I bet you can conquer raw. Like someone above said I believe you will find the support you need here... See you around.

spicyfull
06-01-2008, 02:10 AM
I wish you everything you need to Stay RAW..........Welcome to MY World.

iamacranberry
06-01-2008, 10:55 AM
Good luck, and yes, it's possible. It's easier in some areas than others, but it can be done anywhere. One tip is to forget all of the gourmet raw stuff...it's nice but not necessary. It will ruin your budget and can be hard to find ingredients in many places. I used to live in Ohio in the middle of nowhere and I was fine with raw then....now here....still ok. And on my uni student budget, too.

jacsam
06-02-2008, 03:27 PM
WELCOME.....raw really doesn't have to be expensive, especially if your keeping it simple. I do hope you will find a way to get your hands on Alissa's book, it REALLY is helpful when your first going raw....for yourself and to help you be able to explain it to others.

2 husky girl
06-02-2008, 03:43 PM
Welcome! I used to live near that area of Michigan and totally understand where you're coming from. I know you can do it though!!! :D

Fennec
06-03-2008, 11:11 AM
Good luck, and yes, it's possible. It's easier in some areas than others, but it can be done anywhere. One tip is to forget all of the gourmet raw stuff...it's nice but not necessary. It will ruin your budget and can be hard to find ingredients in many places. I used to live in Ohio in the middle of nowhere and I was fine with raw then....now here....still ok. And on my uni student budget, too.

Sticking to the staples is what I've been doing since the beginning of this challenge, and I've found that it's been easier than I thought. (Primarily eating staples is what I did as a vegan anyway.)

Maybe it's just me, but I've found that it's easier to follow a lifestyle rather than a diet. When I think of the word "diet," I picture instant results with only one intention: To look/feel better. However, with raw foodism, it's about more than just myself; it's about the environment and ethics, not just health and appearance.

Whenever I've dieted, I've failed. But with my eating choices set as a lifestyle, I am more determined. That said, even though there really hasn't been much of a selection for things to eat here, I'm doing well :)

KindnessToAllCreatures
06-03-2008, 06:15 PM
Welcome to the forum, Fennec. How nice to have you here! You seem like a very compassionate soul. We are fortunate to have you in our midst!

In addition to Rawlinda Sue, one of Raw Food Talks superstars, Morn, is from Michigan. There are others as well.

You seem like a very practical, reasonable person. You seem agreeable to simplicity in your diet- I'm certain that will be helpful to you.

Regarding your boyfriend's grandfather, try to remember that unhealthy eating patterns are like a disease. His thought process will be akin to any individual with an addiction. He's well practiced in rationalizing his unhealthy eating patterns.

For now, try to just worry about yourself and not about making any converts. Maybe your positive influence will rub off on him, maybe not. However, I'm certain that, so long as you try not to force your beliefs onto him and accept him as he is, you'll both respect one another at the end of the day.

May you continue to do well on your raw journey... Much Love to You! :)

iamacranberry
06-04-2008, 08:37 AM
I agree that it's more a lifestyle than a diet. The attitude you bring to it makes all the difference in the world.

Fennec
06-04-2008, 04:00 PM
Welcome to the forum! I am also from Michigan - East China/Port Huron/St. Clair area. Where exactly in MI are you?

I'm in the Traverse City area.

Denise Nicole
06-06-2008, 07:42 AM
Welcome and good luck :)