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Carlsbad
12-17-2007, 04:08 PM
Ok, I'll start with the annoying. I've lost almost 50 pounds since May (10 before going raw), and people are really starting to notice (no, that's not the annoying thing). Lots of people have been coming up to me at church to ask if I've lost weight, and what I'm doing. I usually just say, "oh, I've just been trying to eat more fruits and veggies." Perfectly true, but not the whole story. Well, on Sunday, one lady was really pushing me to know how much I had lost and what I'd been doing. I caved and told her I only eat raw vegan food. She immediately asked, where do you get your protein, so I said, the same place gorillas do (good-natured chuckle) and explained that fruits and veggies have enough protein to sustain us. She then asked where I got my calcium, and I said, again fruits and veggies, especially greens. So then she said, well, you must have to be really careful to get enough variety. Her tone implied that there was no way I was getting enough nutrients from my diet. Now, I know that the raw food thing is new to people, and it can be hard to understand if you don't know all the stuff with the China Study and the fact that the dairy farmer's fund xy and z, but variety?! Are you kidding me?! When I ate SAD, I ate the same 5-10 things over and over all the time, and very few of those things were fruits or vegetables, and even fewer weren't fried. Since I started eating raw, I don't think I've had the same "menu" twice! And she wants to lecture me about variety?! Argh! I've been stewing about it ever since. So I've decided that the next time someone picks at my diet when they don't know what they're talking about, I'm going to say, with horror in my voice, "Gosh, where do you get your antioxidants?" I just get angry when someone feels like they can criticize my choices, especially when they don't know anything about it. Grrr.

But now on to the much better thing! Yesterday I was at my parents' house with my sister and brother-in-law and their three kids (ages 6,4, and 1). For lunch, everyone had this huge spread of pancakes with syrup, bacon, eggs with cheese cooked in bacon grease AND butter, and english muffins with butter and jam (even as I write that it makes me queasy!). I had a bowl of sunflower seeds (they're my current favorite thing) and a bottle of kombucha. After lunch, I got up from the table to check on my nieces, and I ended up running and wrestling and playing with them for about an hour. We were playing horse, so I went running through the house with the six-year-old on my back, and we ran into the family room. Everyone else was collapsed on the sofas, and half of them were asleep. Everybody kept saying, oh, I ate too much, and groaning while they sat half comatose, even an hour after the meal, and here I was running through the house with a 45 pound kid on my back. I always think that I haven't gotten the huge energy boost that you read about with raw (I still need a lot of sleep), but six months ago I would have been passed out on the sofa with the rest of my family. Instead, I was up and moving and had just spent an hour giggling and playing with my beloved nieces. How flippin cool is that?!

I feel so blessed to have found a lifestyle that gives me health, happiness, and the energy to make the most of the time I have on this earth. I would trade a big ol' greasy plate of food for an hour of memory-making with my nieces any day of the week. It really made me think--people are literally poisoning themselves with cooked food, yet they keep eating it. I'm so grateful that I got out of the matrix! :D

sport
12-17-2007, 04:16 PM
So I've decided that the next time someone picks at my diet when they don't know what they're talking about, I'm going to say, with horror in my voice, "Gosh, where do you get your antioxidants?" :D

Nice one. Have not heard this one used before.

justinesmith
12-17-2007, 05:28 PM
I agree ~ that's brilliant!

apower2me408
12-17-2007, 06:36 PM
What a very inspiring post! Thank you so much for sharing. I needed this right now! I am struggling over how I will tell my mom/family about my new diet, as I will be spending my semester/winter break with her.

Eva
12-17-2007, 06:42 PM
Here's an idea... You could tell them that you've been doing a lot of research, and if they're really interested, you can write down a good starter book (such as The China Study). And nicely reassure them that you are being very careful about the nutrition you're taking in, which is why you chose the "diet" you did.

Just an idea...

It's pretty ridiculous how much people just repeat the garbly googly gook nonsense they heard from "somewhere" and questions that were asked by "someone" about nutrition. They're like robots, I tell ya.

On a very bright note... it really is nice to know that you're not poisoning yourself, isn't it!?

RawHeaven
12-17-2007, 07:39 PM
Carlsbad, I love it! Thank you for sharing. I'm going to use your antioxidant quote and add a few other raw facts to it with a shocked expression. Hahaa. For example, like "what are you doing about all of that acid and clogged waste in your colon? Aren't you concerned your body is acidic?" and walk away. However, I'm growing increasingly more compassionate with the SAD commentors lately because I know they mean well in most cases. The average American has a gazillion tapes running in their brains of what is and is not good for us when it comes to food. We get programmed from an early age...graduating from family to school to work & social food consuming pressures. Oh and then add the daily fear news tactics - you're gonna die if you do or don't eat this and of course they're confused. I can't say that I blame them really as they are running on false information and don't know it. But it's their responsibility to wake up and not ours. And we certainly don't have to argue with them...won't get through in most cases anyway. So I really like your suggestion...I think it's a great way to redirect that energy and get the focus back on them which is really who they're really talking about anyway...they're worried about themselves. Something is just not computing you know...they're more than likely thinking..."you look great, you're glowing, you're healthy...but that can't be right 'cause you're only eating WHAT again?" LOL.

This evening my housemate came home early and I was in the midst of preparing some green smoothies in advance. I chop up my greens and keep them in small glass containers in the fridge...then they're ready to throw in the blender with my fruit. I had about 10 containers on the counters half full with greens and other yummy items. Anyway, she said "oh that's a great idea for salads". I said they're not for salads, they're for green smoothies. She said with her brows pressed deeply together "....for what?" I repeated, "smoothies". She just shrugged her shoulders and resumed taking her (processed frozen batter) chocolate chip cookies out of the oven. I've explained what a green smoothie is a million times and made her one and she loved it. But it still rolls off of her shoulders and her eyes glaze over when I mention the God awful smoothie word. She can't hear what I'm saying through all of that programming. My lips are moving, but she's not hearing me speak. They've got to break through the cow-milk calcium, red-meat protein walls first I tell ya! :D

tvillemom
12-17-2007, 07:58 PM
Next time I think I'll ask, "where do you get your vitamin c", or let's pick another....betacarotene, or hmmm.....omega 3's (most people don't have a CLUE) they only know what the media has pushed down their throat....PROTEIN AND CALCIUM....two of the biggest food industries in America:mad:

Well....let me see...I need about 1/4 the amount of calcium as YOU, because I DON'T overeat on the protein!!! DUH!!!

LOVE IT!!

dalimeindacoconut
12-18-2007, 02:27 AM
Hey Carlsbad, here is what I tell them: 'that's funny because I've had everything checked by my doctor ie: blood, vitamin levels, cured my anemia etc. and she said she has never seen someone come into her office that was so healthy. As a matter of fact she was so astonished she asked me what I was doing and told me to keep doing it and she wished that more of her 'customers' were doing it'!

Raspberry4
12-18-2007, 07:03 AM
Great idea. Was it in Alissa's book (I cannot remember the source) that stated that the body has to work hard, and cannot assimilate, the protein that is cooked? Great comments!