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aubrey
01-29-2007, 08:58 AM
Hi, all!

My name is Aubrey, and I am slightly embarrassed to admit that I was a member here before, but then dropped off into the cooked food oblivion when I moved back into my parent's home to go to law school. My parents thought the raw food thing to be too extremist, and essentially, I felt guilty when my mom would prepare a nice dinner and I wouldn't eat it. However, I must say that I went into remission (I have Fibromyalgia) when I did eat raw, and when I began eating cooked foods again, I started experiencing symptoms again.

I switched to eating 3/4 raw in the past month, and save the holidays, was eating about 3/4 raw before then for the previous six months. Recently, however, I have noticed how my environment (be it physical and meta-physical) have been impacting me. Law School, for me, is not a tremendously positive place. The more time that is spent here, the more I recognize how it changes people. Many of the people I started out being friends with are no longer my friends. Most people here do not value health, values, and peace. They may have come in with one set of values, but the competitive environment has caused many to develop a "cutthroat" rather than collaborative attitude toward their colleagues in their chosen profession. My view always has been and always will be that lawyers are counsellors, and are here to help people through very difficult and often traumatic moments in their lives, being an advocate and a voice for that person when they need one most. As time goes on here, people do whatever they can to get ahead, even if it means stepping on others to get there. Long story short, I feel the negative vibe of law school in general beginning to permeate me, and I don't like it.

I remember that when I was 100% raw, negativity didn't impact me the way it does now. I had more energy, and a positive outlook on life. I felt more compassion, as eating raw is in line with ahimsa, the yogi practice of non-harming, and I practice yoga daily. In sum, eating raw was not only good for my physical health, it was good for my mental and emotional health. I don't think people realize how important an impact diet has on the mental/emotional side of health.

So I am back, and I am going to begin eating raw, 100%, again. What I had trouble with the most last time was chocolate and bread. I'm going to try to find other alternatives that help me to beat those cravings this time around. One thing that I cannot do, however, is give up my sashimi. Its a twice monthly ritual between me and the boyfriend, and it is tradition...something we both cherish. I know fish is essentially meat, and that this is a vegan diet, but I do want to be honest for my love of sashimi. Hey, at least it is raw! :)

~Aubrey

Veganforlife
01-29-2007, 09:01 AM
Welcome back!

RowanC
01-29-2007, 10:28 AM
Welcome Back! What a beautiful name.. Aubrey... I've always loved that name. It's up top with my mother's name, Gloanna, and my grandmother Ada's name.

Aubrey... just sounds so... exotic, peaceful, nice... I love it!

aubrey
01-29-2007, 12:02 PM
Thanks for dropping by for the warm welcome! I was named after a song by the 70's folk band called Bread ("Aubrey was her name...". I hope I have grown into the name!

I am curious...Have the cravings ever existed, or if so, when did they stop? I am finding that the more I replace foods and encourage myself to eat the substitutes, the more I crave the substitutes instead, and forget about what I even enjoyed in the other foods...

Blazin'Jane
01-29-2007, 09:53 PM
Alissa has a good recipe in her book for fudge. She says that in her early days of being raw she carried some with her all the time in case she got panicky. It looks like an easy recipe. I plan to try it soon. Welcome and good luck. I've only been raw since Dec. 27. I feel wonderful and have lost 12 lbs. ;)

aubrey
01-30-2007, 07:39 AM
Thanks so much for the heads up on the fudge...I saw that recipe last night while I was going through her book, and was hoping to get some feedback on it. It sounds good to me! Looks like I have a little project this weekend!

gexter
01-30-2007, 08:23 AM
I am also new here, but I had to respond to your post. I found it encouraging in many ways. If someone shares something that makes you think positive about your life thats worth a big thanks.

Take care.
gex

spicyfull
01-30-2007, 12:05 PM
Sounds as though you are Already a Great Lawyer............I wish you Much Success.

I feel your Pain......and these are choices only you can make, such as not wanting to offend your Mother by not eating her food. Let your desire from within lead you.

Again the sashimi is your choice.....WHAT ABOUT YOU?? I feel that Love has NOTHING to do with being a people pleaser.

This is a Journey and its YOUR Journey, you travel as you choose.........

I wish you everything you need to Stay RAW.....Welcome to MY World.......

aubrey
01-30-2007, 04:04 PM
Spicy, you are right about the sashimi, and about my family. That's why I am back. I'm doing what I know is best for me, finally! :)

Gez, thank you. Each day I try to make this world a better place. If I can do that by being the best me I can be, I'm stoked!

Blazin'Jane
01-30-2007, 08:39 PM
Let me know how the fudge turns out, Aubrey. I probably won't get to it htis weekend.

rawpriestess
02-07-2007, 04:08 PM
Welcome welcome welcome