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rawpriestess
10-23-2006, 09:05 AM
I was posting in another thread, when I started writing about this and I thought it might be an interesting thread on its own.

When I used to eat SAD, I would just grab the food and eat it, usually as fast as I could then get on with my life.

Now, I savor each bite, I really chew my food, and I like my food one thing at a time, I often mono meal, or I at least eat my food consciously.

I noticed when I was out to breakfast a couple days ago, that I was really noticing my food, chewing well, enjoying each bite, putting my fork down between bites, and the person I was with, was talking with their mouth full, shoveling in the omelette, and drinking coffe and alot of it, almost a cup a gulp, LOL

It took me longer to eat my fresh fruit plate, which was fairly small, compared to their eating toast, butter, jam, 4 cups of coffee, orange juice, a 3 egg omelette with cheese and meat and a plate of hashbrowns, it was very interesting.

I layed my fork down between each bite, I cut my fruit with a knife, and I enjoyed my food, they didn't use a knife, never put their fork down, and really ate fast, and were still hungry at the end, in fact I offered them some of my fruit, and they took it too. LOL

I was very satisfied, but not full, nor was I uncomfortable, they were sitting back in their chair, saying they were stuffed, but then asked for 3 more cups of coffee. LOL

When I eat now, I actually enjoy my food, I relish it, I can feel the energy of the food going into my body, and it feels great.

I used to never even care, I just wanted to fill up, and now I don't care so much about how much I eat, as how much energy I gain from the food I eat.

Sometimes, I just sit in the sunshine and breath deeply, and I feel like I've taken in the perfect amount of energy, without even eating food.

Sometimes, I drink a glass of water and feel this way too.

When I ate SAD, this didn't happen, it was almost a war or a battle with food, but with eating raw foods, it's more of a love affair.

and I like it.

Nenyath
10-23-2006, 10:54 AM
Beautifully written and all too true! I can recognize what you say there about really savouring the food. A little thing I've noticed though is this: When I eat all raw I get to the point of really caring for what I eat and eating a little less(one week all raw in a row is what I have acomplished yet), when I am out and can't have my good ol' top tuned salad and organic fruits I tend to not think so much about it either, and then when I have cheated during the day I actually end up stuffing it in for no other reason than being in practise with it.. :rolleyes: But I want to enjoy my food, every bite a you RP, for it sounds really really nice!

Fly forever free..

sungoddess
10-23-2006, 11:22 AM
This is something I really need to work on. I have been 100% for 84 days (wow, I had hardly realized) and I STILL am a little bit stuck with my old eating habits of eating too fast, not chewing my food enough, eating out of boredome, or stress and not really savoring my food. It is my big goal! To really become an intuitive eater. I am saying affirmations! Hopefully if I work hard, I can reprogram the way I live to eat!! :o

SmilingRawDancer
10-23-2006, 11:34 AM
This is something I really need to work on. I have been 100% for 84 days (wow, I had hardly realized) and I STILL am a little bit stuck with my old eating habits of eating too fast, not chewing my food enough, eating out of boredome, or stress and not really savoring my food. It is my big goal! To really become an intuitive eater. I am saying affirmations! Hopefully if I work hard, I can reprogram the way I live to eat!!

Couldn't have said it better myself :)

I still eat out of boredom....

ShelShel
10-23-2006, 12:56 PM
RP~ I do this too now. The other day I bought a honey dew melon...and instead of balling it to eat...I cut it apart...to savor every last piece. I didn't want any left in the skin. :p
The exception to this is when I wait too long between eating...and then I find even with raw...I eat too fast. I'm afraid of grabbing a cooked item..so, I eat rather quickly to fill myself before the cravings set it. :rolleyes:

sport
10-23-2006, 01:01 PM
It takes me so long to eat that I usually log on here and talk to you guys at the same time.
I have read everything now and I still have not finished eating so come on with a few new posts please.

Amberly
10-23-2006, 01:23 PM
I've noticed this by seeing the way I eat now versus the way my family eats. There is a sensuality with the living food. When I have something soft or blended I like for it to touch my lips. I feel as though something is missing if my food does not caress my lips. I guess this is where kissing comes from. My mom and sister think it is gross when they see me do it. But they seem to eat their food almost unconsciously. I know they enjoy cooked food, because otherwise we wouldn't have favorites, and I remember enjoying it, but it is on a very different level.

Now, if you ask someone eating a pizza whether they are enjoying it or not, they will probably say "heck yeah". And enjoy it more than they would an avocado. But once there is a paradigm shift to raw foods, it becomes a different kind of enjoyment.

Difficult to explain.

dreamrawalwz
10-23-2006, 04:19 PM
This is something I really need to work on. I have been 100% for 84 days (wow, I had hardly realized) and I STILL am a little bit stuck with my old eating habits of eating too fast, not chewing my food enough, eating out of boredome, or stress and not really savoring my food. It is my big goal! To really become an intuitive eater. I am saying affirmations! Hopefully if I work hard, I can reprogram the way I live to eat!! :o

That's me too. I'm finally ready to start working on this I think!

SmilingRawDancer
10-23-2006, 04:47 PM
If anyone has any good techniques for NOT eating when not hungry, or getting over emotional over-eating etc., please share!

rawpriestess
10-23-2006, 04:53 PM
Hi Smilingkyle,


the easiest way I know to eat only when hungry and to eat what you truly desire, is to eat 100% raw foods, this takes away all the addictive substances -- at least for me -- and allows me to eat the foods that I truly wish to eat or want/desire to eat, instead of eating on auto-pilot. LOL

it takes a few months to get to that point, or at least for me it took me about 2 months, this time I went raw to get there, and then just one day, it was as if a veil had been lifted from my eyes, and I was simply eating what I wanted and not eating or desiring other things.

I also found that when I went through some emotional issues, that were pretty intense, that I wanted cooked food, at first, I didn't succumb to those addictive behaviors, but as time went on, and the emotional issues continued or worsened, then I did succumb and eat some cooked food, once that happened, it was difficult to get back to 100% raw 100% of the time. so.........
it's all a process towards progress for me, and I'm doing it one day at a time, sometimes one meal at a time, or even one bite at a time

I figure it this way, each bite of fresh, raw, ripe, organic food is a bite towards health, and eat bite of not so fresh, raw, ripe organic food (or cooked food) is a bite towards illness, now it may not be that way for everyone, but it is for me, so I just make a conscious choice with each bite of food and I truly enjoy the food also.

AND I find that each time I make this great decision to eat great healing food, that I feel more and more empowered in ALL things in my life, what a wonderful side benefit to eating raw.