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kaybee
08-16-2006, 03:33 PM
hey y’all, I hope you can help. I feel like raw is just not really working for me. that said, cooked food no longer makes me feel great either. so yeah, the raw food makes me feel better than the cooked, but doesn’t make me feel a whole lot better than I did when I was regularly eating a significant portion of cooked… so its like im “stuck” with the raw but im not really thriving on it the way most of you all seem to be…. that said, I might not have the absolute best circumstances to be raw—im living in a small coastal tourist town in ireland for the summer—and a lot of things are just too pricey to buy in large amounts or simply just not available. Also, though I have a great blender (thanks to Sport ) and a food processor and juicer, I have been trying to get by without a dehydrator, and I think maybe im just not getting enuff carbs….? but I also wonder if there is something vital nutritionally that is missing in my diet. I feel like I have been doing a pretty good job of at least TRYING to get what I need, despite the inavailablity of any significant quantities of things like nuts and the difficulty in getting greens other than lettuce and leaf beet (ie swiss chard?)

I wake up every morning really stiff and tired, even if I just take a nap I wake up stiff. ive tried switching from my mattress to a foam pad on the floor—no help. then the pad on top of the mattress—still no help. I hate going to sleep cuz I know im going to wake up stiff. and I feel inherently tired a lot of the time. this is not a matter of adaptation I don’t think cuz ive been here 9 weeks now. Also, im under significantly LESS stress here than I was in the dirty city of washington DC, the air is a lot healthier, and my job, while still physical (working at stables), is much less physically exhausting than the bike courier work I was doing in DC.

I have been raw on and off for long periods since beg of january, and played with it for short periods for about a year before that. I was mostly 100% for jan and feb, then on and off for march thru the beg of june. I have been almost 100% since the beg of june, with the exception of a few things u just cant get guaranteed raw here—dates, raisins, and regular organic tamari, and oil cured olives which I was told are not cooked but u never can be sure… I do end up “cheating” now and then, usually because im craving carbs, or the kids at the barn have cookies, chinese food with my boss once in 8 weeks… … if I feel like I have to get something cooked—and its usually something like bread that I want, I try to get rice cakes (ok, the dark choc dipped ones, I admit), or sprouted wheat bread because I figure these don’t have as much heated oils in them and are fairly “pure” ingredient wise, or oat cakes, since ive read that the nutrients in oats seem to be more resilient to heat. and occasionally, but rarely, I end up unable to avoid a glass of beer at the pubs… (maybe once every 2 weeks or so) But I would not typically be eating non-raw stuff on a daily basis, except for small amounts of soy sauce, and raisins. I am finally breaking down and ordering a dehydrator because I feel like im craving carbs all the time and maybe my body just needs more of those denser foods? All this doesn’t really make sense to me because it seems like im eating a pretty pure diet right now—purer than I ever have, and even without dehydrated stuff. which makes me wonder if its some sort of nutritional deficiency…. can any of you guys comment? I just do not seem—and in general have not seemed any time I have been raw—to be experienceing the same sort of benefits you all seem to be experiencing: way increased energy, clearer skin tone, etc etc etc. I don’t think this is still detox because even before this I was vegetarian for years and mostly vegan for a long time and ate pretty decent and a lot of whole foods.

sorry for the long email but lemme give u a little detail on my current diet.

yes, my diet here is definitely more limited than in the States. ESPECIALLY in terms of greens. I never thought the thing I would crave most is kale! also, a ton of alyssaÂ’s recipes depend on nuts, which its too expensive to get more than about a half pound of almonds a week, and the walnuts are awful here. also, avocados youÂ’ve got to drive an hour to get them so I donÂ’t always have them

BUT: we do have a mostly organic garden so a lot of the veggies I am eating and all the greens are super-fresh. cant generally afford organic fruit here though; food prices are astronomical in ireland!

heres whats available and affordable though; not a ton of variety

fruit: apples, bananas, peaches, oranges, mangos, org redcurrants, sometimes cherries, sometimes apricots, sometimes plums, occasional papaya, sometimes avocados, lemons, limes, olives, occasional medjool dates but SUPER expensive
seeds: sesame, sunflower, pumpkin
nuts: outrageously expensive
grains: most available but w/out dehydrator not all that usefulÂ…
veggies: from garden: cucumber, lettuce, beet greens, leaf beet, some spinach, small amounts of kale, collards, parsley, basil, green beans, arugula, beets; from hfs: (org) mushrooms, carrots, butternut squash, scallions, cabbage, celery, sometimes sprouts, garlic, ginger, onions, potatoes,
you can also also get non org peppers, tomatoes, etc, but id rather not have the pesticides and the org ones are outrageously priced., and u can get org leeks, eggplant and zucchini but im not that fond of these.
other: raw honey, raw nori, dulse, wakame, other sea veg. org but not raw soy sauce, dried currants, dried dates, dried coconut (all probably not low temp dried), vanilla beans, herbs and spices. cold pressed olive oil, cold pressed sesame oil, cold pressed sunflower oil.
WILDCRAFTED STUFF: theres tons of stinging nettles here; I heard u can juice them; anyone know how? also wish I knew what else I could eat wildcraftedÂ…

there are a few other things available, but I havent bothered listing them because either they would tend to be out of price range (ie flax oil, etc) or not that fresh (ie broccoli and cauliflower, strawberries) so I wouldnÂ’t use them that often.

heres a couple sample days:

1 day last week: 2 bananas, ¾ cup sesame seeds, ¾ cup raisins, 1 cup bok choy, 2 mandarins, 3 cucumbers, basil, 1 cup spinach, 2 tbsp cold pressed sesame oil, ½ cup mixed seed butter (raw but not live), 1 sheeet nori, ½ cup honey, garlic, ginger, handful of garden peas, salad with I cup arugula, 3 cups lettuce, ½ cup beet greens, sesame oil, garlic
another day: 2 apples, 4 clementines, 1 fresh apricot, ¼ cup raw seed butter, ½ cup honey, salad: ¾ cup dulse and mix sea veg, ½ cup broccili, ½ cup cucumber, ½ cup sesame seeds, 2 cups soaked sunflower seeds, 3 plums, 1 small banana, handful brazil nuts, salad: head of lettuce, handful beet greens, ½ cucumber, 1 tbsp sea veg, 1 scallion, sesame oil,; ¼ cup sesame seeds, 1.4 cup raisins, 1/8 cup dried coconut, 2tbsp honey
friday: lettuce, beet greens, mushrooms, buch of olives, 4? bananas, 4 clementines, 2 tbsp seed butter, cookie, honey, some fresh dates
yesterday: 3 bananas, 1 grapefruit, 3 fresh dates, tiny slice papaya; lunch: 1 cup kale with garlic honey olie oil. 2 cups spinach with sesame seeds and sesame oil. avocado with soy sauce, ¾ cup sesame seeds, ¼ cup raisins, ¼ cup dried coconut, 1/4 cup honey; 4 pm: 1 banana, ½ loaf (about ½ lb cooked sprouted wheat bread: ingred just sprouted wheat and ginger, with banana, honey and oil. 7pm: the rest of the loaf, 9 pm: 9 olives, 2 clementines, avocado and 2 sheets nori with dash soy sauce. couple more dates.
today (bad raw food dayÂ…): 2 bananas, 2 dates, mango, fresh redcurrants, honey, few raisins, some cacao (tryna wake self up) and dates, 1 cup dulse, sea veg, broccoli cucumber salad with sesame soy scallion parsely dressing. 6 (yeah, 6 Â….(dark chocolate coated rice cakesÂ….), a few almonds
other stuff I eat: banana cream pie with sesame seeds raisin coconut crust , banana, honey avocado filling, marinated mushrooms, sunflower seed pate, occasional carrot celery parsley and or beet juice, apples and crushed almonds, peaches, almonds, and honey, soaked almonds, broccili soup, cauliflower mash potatoes, pine nuts, sprouted buckwheat (sick of it) smoothies (but donÂ’t like em, feel bloatedÂ…), spinach dip, almost always have at least 1 pretty big ?like 4-6 cups, salad every day with whatever greens I can get. also fair amts of sea veg 1-2 x per week. know im eating too much sesame seeds but craving some kind of carbsÂ…and theyre not soaked so probably not digestible anywayÂ…..and too many bananas tooÂ….
I feel like im eating good stuff, but im not actually feeling well-nourished physically, and also a lot of times emotionally, cuz things I like like almond butter, nuts and dates are such a rarity. cooked food seems more attractive and with more variety cuz feel like diet is kind of limited.
also, I feel like im eating and preparing food ALL the time, which is annoying
any help greatly appreciated J

Revvell
08-16-2006, 04:35 PM
Well, I have to say, I got tired just reading this post.

Personally, the only people I know not getting enough carbs are those who are protein obsessed. ALL raw foods contain carbohydrates, proteins and fats in different quantities. With the variety you are eating I would not concern myself about getting enough carbohydrates.

What I would suggest is, you seem to be obsessing. Lighten up! Eat when hungry, sleep when tired. Do conscious movement such as yoga or qigong; get out and walk and just enjoy the moment.

As far as grains go, one doesn't need a dehydrator to utilize them. Soak sprout and blend with whatever you have, roll them up in a leaf of some sort and voila! It's a wrap!

Most of all, play with your food. It's o.k. You're an adult now.

Revvell

dreamrawalwz
08-16-2006, 04:41 PM
You have a large selection compared to me so it seems enough! You're new right? Being tired and still IS part of detox. Some people's bodies do well with a lot of fat and others can't tolerate any. You'll have to experiment. Food combining can have an impact as well.

vgloveforlife
08-16-2006, 05:16 PM
What you're eating looks good but if I were you I would get a multi vitamin and take it about once a week just to make sure you're getting enough vitamins and minerals. I do this and I feel good!

I would also focus special attention on iron. Iron can be hard to get on raw foods as it is abundant in beans and grains. Iron deficiency can cause tiredness.

For me, I've noticed that when I eat A LOT in a day I feel so much better than when I eat lightly. It probably has something to do with getting enough nutrients.

Jordann
08-16-2006, 06:13 PM
I agree with Revell... don't fret! and also dreamrawalwz.. it could be detox

My 2 cents would be eat more fruit.

Personally, I feel WAY WAY better if I eat a lot of fruit throughout the day, and save the vegetables, nuts, recipes etc for evening meals... the days in which I feel the best, energy wise especially, are days I eat lots of fresh fruit :p

Stiff and tired? I don't know, exercise? Stretching, yoga like Revell suggested..?

I too only have a food processor and a blender - you can work wonders with what you've got.

And don't fret about organic fruit either. The only organic fruit I can afford to buy is organic bananas, since I eat a ton of them too.. I'll buy something on sale, but otherwise conventional and RAW has got to better than organic and heavily processed, in my humble opinion ;)

Hope you feel like this :D :D soon!

Gosia
08-16-2006, 07:31 PM
I would like to share my thoughts. Feel free to take them on board or not, as you wish.

To me, the major clues are:
* "I feel inherently tired a lot of the time"
* "I feel like im craving carbs all the time and maybe my body just needs more of those denser foods"
* "I do end up “cheating” now and then, usually because im craving carbs"
When I look at what you eat, it all makes sense.

First, about the tiredness.
* Having some cooked now and then leads to detox, and associated with it feeling of tiredness. To get over it, you need to try go without for about two weeks to notice an improvement.
* Poor food combining (in particular combining fats and fruit) will also lead to tiredness as well as bloating (which you seem to experience). Note that if you do not leave enough time between the meals, the previous meal gets combined with you current meal. Considering how bad you feel, I would strongly recommend that you simplify your meals. Garlic, although may seem tasty, kills your good intestinal flora (which will make you feel tired too) so I would stop using it for now.
* Dehydration will lead to feeling tired too. If you feel thirsty after a meal, this means that whatever you've eaten was not optimal. I find that fruit are the best hydrating foods.
Also
* you seem to be eating foods that do not have appeal to you (buckwheat, for example).
When you do that, you feed your body what it does not really need. Food that your body does not want, is harder to digest, and eating it will make you feel tired.

About the cravings for carbs:
* From looking at what you eat, it seems that you would benefit from including more fruit in your diet. Fruit is the best source of carbohydrates. Your body is clearly telling you it wants some more fruit.



I think that if you incorporate these simple tips, you should start feeling better very soon!

Take care,
Gosia

berrymarymac
08-16-2006, 07:50 PM
I would recommend a once a day vitamin, vegan specialized! But mostly a B-12 one! Whenever I don't take my vitamins, I'm in a blur and exhausted! I have so much more energy after I've had it in the morning!

rawbeliever
08-16-2006, 08:23 PM
I had a lot of tiredness initially, also. I think some of it was detox, but now that I've "tuned in" more to my body, I know that whenever I eat a lot of fats, (nuts, seeds, avocados, etc.) it weighs me down. I keep my fat consumption to 20% of my total calories (i don't count calories...i know for myself that that means about 3/4 of an avocado a day), and now I have TONS of energy.

lissomllama
08-16-2006, 09:19 PM
How long have you been CONSECUTIVELY 100% raw? When was the last time you ate cooked?

You cannot expect to have good results if you are eating even the smallest amount of cooked, even just once in a while. Much less more often. If you have been completely 100% raw for a very long time like 6 months or more and are still not seeing much good, then that is more of an issue, but I don't know how long you've really been doing it 100%. That makes all the difference in the world.

My advice is if you aren't 100% raw all the time, take the plunge and really do it. Make sure you are eating ONLY raw stuff 24/7, only then can you see real results and even then, it will take more time. You'll need to detox from the last times you ate cooked food. Ipromise, you'll see results.

Your raw diet looks good, just remember to stay balanced, eat a variety and drink enough water and you'll get just what you need from this lifestyle. Also, there is no excuse not to do raw. It may be hard based on where we live but this is earth and it is entirely possible, just not always easy. Your body wants this for you, just listen to it. You'll get what you need without suppliments or cooked food or any of that other junk.

The first thing that needs to change though is your outlook. Raw is a joy, try to see it that way. Raw is what we lovely human creatures were meant to thrive on. Focus on how lucky we are to have these perfect fruits a veggies to nourish our bodies with and be even more thankful that we raw folks have the knowlege about it and that we are no longer lost in the lies that abound in cooked and SAD lifestyles. Have fun with raw, whether that means eating simply or making a few gourmet things that you CAN find the truly raw ingredients for. Food is fuel to run your body properly, it is nothing to stress or worry over. You already know that raw is right because you know that cooked is wrong. You're not 'stuck' with raw, you get to eat raw. You're an enlightened person with the key to the fountain of youth so to speak. No joke, if you do this truly, you'll see amazing results. It might be your outlook on this that is keeping you from having the results you want. Just my thoughts.

Bless you, you're doing great :)

D'vorah
08-16-2006, 09:58 PM
I have to agree with Gosia, carb cravings = not enough fruit. More fruit, less fat, that's what I'd say.

Deborah

Naiad
08-16-2006, 10:18 PM
I have to agree with Gosia, carb cravings = not enough fruit. More fruit, less fat, that's what I'd say.

Deborah

I agree... I think I overdid it with too much oil and avocado PLUS some pine nuts in my kale salad last night. I fell right asleep after :(

rawcenter
08-16-2006, 11:35 PM
Id say steadily take a multi vitamin and maybe if you eat more greens with a nut dressing you might feel diff. Id say you cant go wrong with eating fruit as snacks and eat 2 or more huge salads a day. then more fruit... your body will tell you if it wants more greens or fruit. maybe try stretching before bed and when you wake up.... or whenever you do do it it may eventually have an accumulative effect and make you pyhsically feel better.

kaybee
08-24-2006, 01:27 PM
hey thanks for all the advice. i will see what i can do. i realize some of you say it has to be totally 100% all the time but that is just so so difficult because a lot of the raw stuff my body really wants i just cant get here or get raw here. what doesnt make sense to me is that it seems like even if im not 100%, if im at least close to it, i should be noticing some improvements, rather than things worsening; ie if my diet has significantly improved over what it used to be why dont i see any results? if its all or nothing in order to see results, i dont think this is going to work for me. i dont see the point struggling with it all the time and even trying to eat 90% or so if thats the best i can do and not seeing results; seems discouraging ive put so much effort into it for nothing......

Frog
08-24-2006, 03:15 PM
Poor food combining (in particular combining fats and fruit) will also lead to tiredness as well as bloating (which you seem to experience). Gosia



Is it not a good idea to blend my mixed seed oil with my morning fruit smoothie then :confused:


A note to you Kaybee, I am just starting out eating more raw, and that is my self talk at the moment, just eat more raw. I have been increasing a little each day but I still have a cooked meal each night with my family at the moment. For now that is the best I can do. I come here to learn and see what other folks are doing, they are not me and vice versa so I just do the best I can and ignore any sign of the vegan (in this case, raw) police.

Encouraging newbies and those who are struggling or a little slower is the name of the game for me. :)
(Kaybee, pm or mail me through admin if you like :) )

lissomllama
08-24-2006, 03:36 PM
hey thanks for all the advice. i will see what i can do. i realize some of you say it has to be totally 100% all the time but that is just so so difficult because a lot of the raw stuff my body really wants i just cant get here or get raw here. what doesnt make sense to me is that it seems like even if im not 100%, if im at least close to it, i should be noticing some improvements, rather than things worsening; ie if my diet has significantly improved over what it used to be why dont i see any results? if its all or nothing in order to see results, i dont think this is going to work for me. i dont see the point struggling with it all the time and even trying to eat 90% or so if thats the best i can do and not seeing results; seems discouraging ive put so much effort into it for nothing......

some people DO see some results with 90% or whatever but usually not, because of this: When you eat cooked all the time with only a little bit of fruits or veggies, your body is totally used to it and has built up protectice coatings on all your organs and you function 'ok', of course people get sick a lot and die of early age and get obese etc. but they're used to it. When you eat mostly raw with only a little cooked you'd think you'd be mostly healthy but it usually doesn't work that way because your body is trying to get rid of all the cooked junk and meanwhile you're craving it because cooked food contains toxins and addictive substances due to the heating process. Any cooked food is very strong on the body and has adverse effects because your body doesn't want any of it but even that little bit throws the whole system off.

But regardless of what *should* be happening, you've said yourself that you're not thriving on only 90% raw, so what, logically would make you thrive. You know it isn't more cooked food because that was the extreme you were at before. Logically, 100% is what will make the good change here. I know it's hard but giving up cooked food isn't a tragedy at all. It's only junk. Junk that your body doesn't want or need. Cooked food should be treated like a dangerous drug, because it acts like one in the body, even a little bit of it make a bad difference and you keep craving it and craving it.

I hope you'll figure out what works for you and be happy but I think the only way you can make an informed decision is to actually go 100%, no exceptions for a while and see the difference. No one is saying that you have to do it forever, just try it. You're already so close. To throw all your progress away wouldn't make much sense.

Also, I noticed you said that it has all been for 'nothing'. Well I bet if you thought really hard there might be at least one small thing that has changed for the better, maybe not a bodily thing, maybe a mental thing or something like that? And remember, no matter how healed you become with 100% raw, you're never going to sprout wings and fly. Amazing changes will happen, of course, but some people expect too much too fast and think that every problem will always go away. We live in a time where it simply isn't as clean as it should be so some things won't change much but it is still worth it.